11 September 2026 The Person

Nobody Warns You Marriage Comes With Being Dragged to Dinner

For f.. sake.

Krisztina has washed her hair, dropped the gym clothes and made herself gorgeous - "for herself and her husband", she writes. 😳🫪

And I want to be completely honest with you who follow along here.

I'm 52 years old. I am, as the picture clearly shows, a quiet and worn-down man in the autumn of life, who mostly just wants to be allowed to stay in his workout clothes, order a pizza, run around in my Jesus t-shirts all day long and write the sun dark together with you.

But that's not how Friday turned out.

AGAIN!!!?? 🙄

There are obligations that come with being a husband. Heavy obligations. Nobody talks about them. Nobody prepares you for them. If I had known this came with it, back when I woke up as a Christian… ALL THE TIME!?

As you can see, I'm dragging it out as long as I possibly can.

Someone has to make the sacrifices.

Pray for me.

🥵😁

Happy weekend, friends.

Don't let the Beast get hold of you.
FIGHT. Or ask for help.

It's always near.
And more is on the way.

Much.
More.

It's a promise.

❤️

(And yes, I have something in my pocket in the picture. Relax!)

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